The
Follow Through. . .
After
Treatment
The
self-help programs spawned from AA (like G.A., Gamblers
Anonymous) are often the first place suffering people turn
for help. Nonetheless, it is an observable fact that formal
treatment can accelerate and improve the quality of
recovery. The visible proof of the merits of combining
treatment with twelve-step programs can be seen and heard at
twelve-step group meetings. It becomes quickly obvious who
has been through treatment and who has not.
Most treatment "graduates"
demonstrate a clearer understanding of the biogenetic nature
of their disease, wrestle less with the vestiges of denial,
and seem more comfortable with the idea of abstinence. Those
who have undergone formal treatment are quite often more in
touch with their feelings and in particular have learned how
to deal with anger and fear in positive ways
Aspects of the Disease
Probably the most distinguishing mark of
those who have experienced treatment is their clearer grasp
of the family aspects of the illness. On the other hand,
those who undergo treatment but do not continue in a
twelve-step program appear to be missing a valuable
component in their lives. It is not that they can’t stay
sober and drug-free and "off the bet" without A.A.,
C.A, N.A., or G.A., because they often do. But they seem to
lack the spiritual vitality, sense of purpose, and serenity
that grows out of a life based on the principles embodied in
the Twelve Steps. My acquaintance with thousands of
recovering persons has convinced me that the formula for
accelerated recovery and optimum wellness is this:
first-class family-based treatment, including a solid
aftercare component, followed by
"one-day-at-a-time" living built upon the
long-respected "Twelve Steps" of your choice.
This remains part of follow-through after
the treatment experience. Some experts say that 20 percent
of recovery takes place in treatment and most of the rest
during the first two years afterwards, providing certain
aftercare steps are taken. Of all the critical actions,
following through with continues recovery efforts after
treatment is perhaps the most crucial to long-term success.
Aftercare is usually structured through a
formal commitment by the addicted person and family to
attend professionally facilitated weekly therapy meetings in
which ex-clients and their families continue to work on
chemical dependency and co-dependency and gambling issues.
Aftercare combined with programs such as A.A., Al-anon,
Alateen and G.A. is what assures sustained recovery.
Aftercare provides the environment in
which to continue processing the emotional pain of the
disease. It reinforces the new beginnings in damaged
relationships and helps refine valuable skills for living,
such as stress management, relaxation techniques, exercise
programs, nutrition, communication skills, self-esteem
building, and assertiveness.
In addition, aftercare motivates the
clients through the difficult early stages of establishing
their twelve-step program. It is not uncommon to hear
untreated addiction clients still wresting with these issues
years after quitting their addicted behaviors whether is
alcohol, drugs or gambling. Similarly, recovering
co-dependent people, without the benefit of aftercare, may
continue suffering for years and have become disillusioned
because they expected the addicted person
sobriety/abstinence alone to fix all their problems. The
record is clear. Those who remain faithful to their
aftercare contract seldom relapse. Those who don’t have or
follow an aftercare contract, often do.
The two most common reasons for continued
recovery in any addiction process are a trend that continues
throughout the years. They are…abstinence and twelve-step
living to provide the foundation for sustained recovery.
These two axioms should not be tampered with lightly. Beyond
these bedrock concepts, the horizons of recovery will surely
expand as the clients knowledge grows.
Why would anyone want to disrupt or
challenge what has worked for so long, for so many?